by queenofdreams | May 28, 2023 | Erotic Hypnosis
Erotic hypnosis is a powerful tool for exploring and enhancing sexual pleasure and sensuality. By inducing a trance state, hypnotists can guide individuals through a range of experiences, from deep relaxation and meditation to intense arousal and orgasmic release. In this blog post, I will explore the power of erotic hypnosis, examining how it works, what it can be used for, and how it can transform our relationship to our bodies, our desires, and our sexuality.
What is Erotic Hypnosis?
Erotic hypnosis is a form of hypnosis that is focused on sexual pleasure and arousal. It involves inducing a trance state in the person being hypnotised, which allows the hypnotist to access the subconscious mind and guide the individual through a range of experiences. These experiences can include relaxation, meditation, visualisation, and arousal, among others.
Erotic hypnosis can be used for a variety of purposes, from exploring sexual desires and fantasies to improving sexual function and performance. It can also be used to help individuals overcome sexual traumas (if used as a tool by an appropriately qualified therapist. I want to reiterate that although it’s a potential use for erotic hypnosis, this specific example isn’t one that should be attempted by someone who is not appropriately qualified!), increase self-confidence and self-esteem, and enhance intimacy and connection in romantic relationships.
How Does Erotic Hypnosis Work?
Erotic hypnosis works by inducing a trance state in the person being hypnotised. This trance state is in summary characterised by a heightened state of self awareness and suggestibility as well as a decreased awareness of the external environment. In this state, the subconscious mind is more open to suggestion and is more receptive to new ideas and experiences, as well as being more capable of implementing positive experiences and long term changes.
Once the person is in a trance state, the hypnotist can guide them through a range of experiences, using suggestions, imagery, and other hypnotic techniques to create a desired outcome. For example, the hypnotist might guide the individual through a visualisation exercise in which they imagine themselves experiencing intense sexual pleasure, or they might use suggestions to help the individual overcome sexual anxieties or inhibitions. The specific techniques used will vary depending on the hypnotist (their preferred induction styles and level of experience) and the client they’re working with (everyone’s trance journey is unique and the hypnotists approach should reflect this and respond accordingly). I’m giving highly simplified, superficial examples here – the idea is to give an overview, not an in-depth analysis on this occasion.
The Power of Erotic Hypnosis
Erotic hypnosis has the power to transform our relationship to our bodies, our desires, and our sexuality. By inducing a trance state and guiding us through a range of experiences, hypnotists can help us to overcome sexual anxieties and inhibitions, explore our deepest desires and fantasies, and experience a profound sense of pleasure and sensuality.
One of the most powerful aspects of erotic hypnosis is its ability to create a deep sense of connection and intimacy between the hypnotist and the person being hypnotised. Through the hypnotic process, the hypnotist can create a safe and supportive environment in which the individual can explore their sexuality without fear of judgement or shame. This can be particularly powerful for individuals who have experienced sexual traumas or who struggle with sexual anxieties or inhibitions. As intimate as this sense of connection can be, in a professional context it is extra important to be clear about appropriate boundaries and resolutely enforcing them. Failing to do so can cause more problems than it solves and isn’t helpful for either the hypnotist or the subject. The the hypnotic relationship is between two individuals who are also in a romantic relationship, then obviously there is more flexibility with appropriate boundaries, but understanding the difference and reacting accordingly/appropriately is very important.
In addition to its therapeutic benefits, erotic hypnosis can also be used to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. By guiding individuals through a range of experiences, hypnotists can help them to achieve intense levels of arousal and orgasmic release. This can be particularly beneficial for individuals who struggle with achieving orgasm or who have difficulty experiencing sexual pleasure.
The Risks and Limitations of Erotic Hypnosis
While erotic hypnosis can be a powerful tool for exploring and enhancing sexual pleasure and sensuality, it is important to be aware of its risks and limitations. One of the main risks of erotic hypnosis is that it can create false memories or beliefs, particularly if the person being hypnotised is susceptible to suggestion. This can be particularly problematic if the hypnotist is not properly trained or does not have the necessary ethical standards in place. Obviously there may be times where the subject has expressed a desire to play with the concept of amnesia/false memories – this is perfectly okay as long as it’s done safely and with appropriate prior consent of the subject. If the hypnotist fails to act in a professional manner then this can potentially cause distress for the subject.
In addition, it is important to remember that not all individuals will be receptive to hypnosis or (much more likely) to the particular suggestions or techniques used by the hypnotist. While some individuals may experience profound transformation through hypnosis, others may find it ineffective or even uncomfortable. This is why I am a firm believer in taking time to do appropriate research to find an experienced hypnotist who is suitable for you. You can find experienced hypnotists, but just because they are experienced it doesn’t automatically mean they are right for you and will be able to offer you an effective trance experience. Research may seem tedious/boring, but it will save a lot of time and problems in the long run!
Erotic hypnosis is a powerful tool for exploring and enhancing sexual pleasure and sensuality. By inducing a trance state and guiding individuals through a range of experiences, hypnotists can help individuals overcome sexual anxieties and inhibitions, explore their deepest desires and fantasies, and experience a profound sense of pleasure and connection.
However, it is important to approach erotic hypnosis with caution and to work with a trained and ethical hypnotist who can ensure that the process is safe and supportive. By being aware of the risks and limitations of erotic hypnosis, individuals can make informed decisions about whether or not to explore this powerful and transformative tool.
If you are interested in exploring erotic hypnosis, it is important to do your research and find a hypnotist who is properly trained and experienced in working with the themes, scenarios, interests, etc that you are looking to explore. Seek out hypnotists who are committed to creating a safe and supportive environment for their clients.
In addition, be sure to discuss any concerns or questions you may have with your hypnotist before beginning the hypnosis process. This can help ensure that you feel comfortable and supported throughout the process and can help you get the most out of your experience.
Ultimately, the power of erotic hypnosis lies in its ability to help individuals connect with their bodies, their desires, and their sexuality in a profound and transformative way. By approaching this tool with care and respect, individuals can unlock new levels of pleasure, intimacy, and self-awareness, and can create a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship with themselves and their partners.
by queenofdreams | May 7, 2023 | Erotic Hypnosis
Erotic hypnosis is a form of sexual expression that involves the use of hypnosis to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. While this practice can be incredibly enjoyable and fulfilling for those involved, it is also (in my opinion) to consider the ethical implications of using hypnosis in a sexual context.
If you know me, you know that I take the issue of ethics very seriously and I feel it’s one reason why my clients feel able to place such secure trust in me – because they know I oprate ethically and ultimately with their best interests at heart.
With this in mind I wanted to write a blog post where the ethics of erotic hypnosis are explored and guidance is offered on how to ensure that hypnosis is used in a safe, consensual, and ethical manner.
What is Erotic Hypnosis?
Just to sum up – erotic hypnosis is a type of hypnosis that is used to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. It involves inducing a trance-like state in which the individual being hypnotized is more open to suggestion and more responsive to sensory stimuli. Erotic hypnosis can be used in a variety of ways, such as to enhance sexual fantasies, increase sexual desire, and deepen emotional connections with a partner.
Ethics of Erotic Hypnosis
Ethics are an essential consideration when it comes to the use of hypnosis in a sexual context. There are several ethical issues that arise when using hypnosis for sexual purposes, including obtaining consent, managing power dynamics, minimizing the potential for harm, considering the potential long-term impact of hypnosis, and addressing broader societal implications.
Consent is the cornerstone of ethical sexual expression, and erotic hypnosis is no exception. All parties involved in a hypnotic experience must have a clear understanding of what they are consenting to, and this consent must be ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Any good hypnotist worth their salt will encourage open and honest communication, manage expectations and openly encourage discussions around consent before a session takes place.
In the case of erotic hypnosis, it is especially important to obtain explicit and informed consent due to the potential for the hypnotist to suggest behaviors or thoughts that the individual being hypnotized may not normally engage in or may not remember after the experience. Once again – consent must be obtained before the hypnotic experience begins and should include clear communication about what will happen during the experience, what suggestions may be made, and what the individual being hypnotized can expect to feel.
Another essential consideration when it comes to the ethics of erotic hypnosis is the power dynamics involved. The hypnotist holds a position of power and excisting and arousing as that can be, it’s still important that the hypnotist utilise that power in a way that is respectful, safe, and consensual. To manage power dynamics ethically, clear boundaries and guidelines should be established before beginning a hypnotic experience.These boundaries and guidelines should address issues such as what suggestions are acceptable, what behaviors are off-limits, and what actions will be taken if the individual being hypnotized expresses discomfort or distress. The individual being hypnotized should also be empowered to set their own boundaries and should be encouraged to communicate openly with the hypnotist throughout the experience.
Potential for Harm
Hypnosis is a powerful tool that can have a profound impact on the individual being hypnotized. To ensure that hypnosis is used safely and responsibly, the hypnotist must be trained and experienced in its use and must be able to recognize and respond to any signs of distress or discomfort on the part of the subject. I really cannot emphasize enough that it is very important to find a trained and experienced hypnotist if you want to delve beyond the most basic explorations (I say this as I am not averse to say couples experimenting in the bedroom, though even then ethical rules still apply and I strongly recommend doing as much research as possible to keep both parties safe)
Additionally, it is important to consider the potential long-term impact of hypnosis on the individual being hypnotized. Hypnosis can be a transformative experience that can have a lasting impact on a person’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whilst the impact should be entirely positive, the individual being hypnotized must be aware of these potential long-term effects and must be able to give informed consent to the experience.
Furthermore, it is essential to recognize that not all individuals are suitable candidates for hypnosis. People who are prone to dissociation or have a history of trauma may be particularly vulnerable to the potential harms of hypnosis. The hypnotist must be aware of these vulnerabilities and should take steps to ensure that the experience is safe and supportive for the individual being hypnotized.
In addition to considering the potential for harm, I wanted to touch a little more on the potential long-term impact of hypnosis. As mentioned earlier, hypnosis can have a profound and lasting impact on a person’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It is important to consider how this impact might affect the individual being hypnotized, both in the short and long term.
For example, if the individual being hypnotized is experiencing relationship problems or sexual dysfunction, hypnosis might be used to address these issues. However, if the underlying causes of these issues are not properly addressed, hypnosis alone might not be effective in resolving them. Hypnosis should not be used as a substitute for therapy or other forms of professional support. It’s for this very reason that if a client expresses to me that they have been having issues with sexual dysfunction my initial response is to ensure that they have seen a medical professional to rule out any potential physical or psychological issues that should be medically addressed. I recognise that as a hypnotist I am not medically trained and ethically (and legally!) should not be treating such issues. Not to mention it would be morally remiss of me not to ensure that my clients physical and mental wellbeing is prioritised – and this includes seeking medical care when appropriate.
In conclusion, the use of hypnosis in a sexual context is a complex and multifaceted issue that requires careful consideration of ethical implications. Hypnosis can be a powerful tool for enhancing sexual pleasure and arousal, but it must be used in a safe, consensual, and ethical manner.
The ethical considerations of erotic hypnosis include obtaining ongoing and informed consent, managing power dynamics, minimizing the potential for harm, considering the potential long-term impact of hypnosis, and addressing broader societal implications. The hypnotist must be trained and experienced in the use of hypnosis and must be able to recognize and respond to any signs of distress or discomfort on the part of the individual being hypnotized.
Ultimately, the ethical use of hypnosis in a sexual context requires a commitment to respect, safety, and communication. By approaching erotic hypnosis with these principles in mind, individuals can experience the benefits of hypnosis while ensuring that the experience is consensual and respectful for all parties involved.
by queenofdreams | Apr 30, 2023 | Erotic Hypnosis, Hypnosis
If we are going to talk about erotic hypnosis and how it connect with arousal/sexual excitement then it makes sense to give a brief summarisation of what erotic hypnosis actually is.
Erotic hypnosis is a fascinating and complex topic (of which we will just be scratching the surface in this blog post) that in essence involves the use of hypnosis to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. One of the key factors in the effectiveness of erotic hypnosis is arguably arousal – erotic hypnosis is after all a fantastic way to enhance arousal.
In this blog post, we will explore the role of arousal in erotic hypnosis and examine the connection between hypnosis and sexual excitement.
Before delving into the relationship between arousal and erotic hypnosis, it is important to define what we mean by arousal. For the purposes of this blog post, arousal is best defined as a state of heightened physiological and psychological activation that is associated with sexual excitement. This can include increased heart rate, elevated blood pressure, and increased muscle tension. Arousal is an essential component of sexual response and is a necessary precursor to orgasm and sexual release. In other words arousal is inextricably intertwined with sexual pleasure and release. One can feel pleasure in many different ways and forms, but it is the introduction of arousal that shifts pleasure into more sexually orientated territory.
The Role of Arousal in Erotic Hypnosis
In erotic hypnosis, the goal is to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal through the use of hypnosis. Arousal plays a critical role in this process because as mentioned earlier, arousal is deeply connected to sexual pleasure. By utilising hypnosis to enhance arousal, you also create space for enhanced sexual pleasure.
There are several ways in which hypnosis can be used to increase arousal. For example, the hypnotist may use suggestions to create feelings of sexual excitement or to focus the individual’s attention on specific erogenous zones. They may also use visualization techniques to create erotic fantasies or to help the individual visualize sexual scenarios that are pleasurable and arousing.
Another way in which arousal can be enhanced through hypnosis is by increasing sensitivity to physical sensations. By helping the individual to focus on their bodily sensations, the hypnotist can heighten their awareness of sexual arousal and enhance the experience of pleasure.
The options mentioned above are intended to be illustrative rather than exhaustive and it’s important to remember that the hypnotist will be using their professional judgement to decide which methods will be most appropriate for their specific client.
Managing Arousal in Erotic Hypnosis
While arousal is a critical component of erotic hypnosis, it is important to manage it effectively to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all parties involved. Arousal can be a powerful force, and if it is not managed properly, it can lead to feelings of discomfort, anxiety, or even panic.
To manage arousal in erotic hypnosis, it is important to establish clear boundaries and guidelines for the session. The individual being hypnotized should be informed of what will happen during the session and what is expected of them. They should also be given the opportunity to ask questions and to express any concerns they may have.
The hypnotist should also be experienced in managing the arousal of their clients. They should be able to recognize signs of distress or discomfort and be able to respond appropriately. They should also be able to help the individual regulate their arousal and bring them back to a state of calm and relaxation if necessary.
The Connection between Hypnosis and Sexual Excitement
While arousal is an essential component of erotic hypnosis, it is not the only factor at play. Hypnosis itself can also be a source of sexual excitement and pleasure. In fact, many people report that they experience a sense of heightened eroticism and arousal when they are under hypnosis.
There are several reasons why hypnosis may be associated with sexual excitement. For one, hypnosis involves a state of heightened suggestibility and receptivity, which can make it easier for individuals to experience sexual fantasies and sensations. Additionally, hypnosis can create a sense of detachment from reality, which can make it easier for individuals to explore their sexual desires without inhibition or shame.
Hypnotic Induction and Arousal
The process of hypnotic induction is a critical component of erotic hypnosis, and it is closely linked to the experience of sexual arousal. Hypnotic inductions will vary according to the skill and experience of the hypnotist and the needs of the individual client, but essentially involve a series of suggestions and techniques that are designed to help the individual enter a state of deep focus and heightened suggestibility.
This state of focus and suggestibility can create a sense of vulnerability and openness that can lead to heightened arousal. The individual may find themselves becoming more receptive to sexual suggestions.
Potential Risks and Precautions
As with any form of sexual activity, there are risks involved with erotic hypnosis. It is important to take precautions to minimize these risks and ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all parties involved.
One potential risk of erotic hypnosis is the possibility of triggering traumatic memories or experiences. Hypnosis can create a state of heightened vulnerability and suggestibility, which can make it easier for individuals to access buried emotions or memories. This can be a positive thing in many cases, but it can also be dangerous if the individual is not prepared to confront these memories or experiences.
To minimize the risk of triggering traumatic memories or experiences, it is important to work with a qualified and experienced hypnotist who understands and respects the limits of their expertise and has experience in managing situations where things don’t go exactly to plan. The hypnotist should also establish clear boundaries and guidelines in advance of the session and create a safe and supportive environment in which the individual can explore their sexual desires and fantasies.
Another potential risk of erotic hypnosis is the possibility of creating false memories or perceptions. Hypnosis can create a state of altered consciousness in which individuals may experience hallucinations or other distortions of reality. While these experiences can be pleasurable and erotic, they can also be misleading or potentially harmful if they are not carefully managed.
The hypnotist should be transparent about the techniques they use and the potential risks involved. They should also be willing to take responsibility for any unintended consequences that may arise from the session.
Examples of Erotic Hypnosis Techniques
There are many different techniques that can be used in erotic hypnosis to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. Here are a few examples:
1. Suggestion-based techniques: One of the most common techniques used in erotic hypnosis is suggestion. The hypnotist may use suggestions to create feelings of sexual excitement or to focus the individual’s attention on specific erogenous zones.
2. Visualization techniques: Visualization can be a powerful tool in erotic hypnosis. The hypnotist may guide the individual through erotic fantasies or help them visualize sexual scenarios that are pleasurable and arousing.
3. Sensory techniques: Sensory techniques involve using touch or other sensory stimuli to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. For example, the hypnotist may use light touch or massage to increase sensitivity to physical sensations.
In conclusion, arousal plays an integral role in erotic hypnosis. It is necessary to induce a state of sexual excitement and receptivity in the individual being hypnotized. However, it is important to manage arousal effectively to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for all parties involved.
Hypnosis itself can also be a source of sexual excitement and pleasure. The state of heightened suggestibility and receptivity that is created through hypnosis can make it easier for individuals to explore their sexual desires and fantasies without worries or concerns about judgement or the need to hold back.
As with any form of sexual activity, there are risks involved with erotic hypnosis. It is important to work with a qualified and experienced hypnotist who has training in ethical and responsible hypnotic practice. By taking precautions and working with a skilled professional, individuals can safely and responsibly explore the erotic potential of hypnosis.
by queenofdreams | Jun 25, 2019 | Fun/Memorable Hypnosis Sessions, Hypnosis, Uncategorized
Whilst it’s true to say that I operate primarily as an erotic hypnotist rather than a hypnoDomme (meaning the Dominant/submissive [D/s] dynamic is optional), I do enjoy truly special relationships with some very good boys. A genuine relationship takes time to establish as trust and mutual understanding must be given the opportunity to evolve and flourish, but the results can be truly incredible.
As a case in point, I enjoyed a lovely Skype hypnosis session (find more info here) earlier today with a very good boy who I have known and interacted with for a good while. We enjoy a strong D/s dynamic and he has found a great deal of comfort, reassurance and pleasure in choosing to surrender to my control. I take great pride in empowering my submissive boys – encouraging them to be the best version of themselves that they possibly can be, and I love watching my boys gain confidence through submission and truly shine.
In the Skype hypnosis session we enjoyed today, we tried a little experiment. I put him into trance and had him write a note for his conscious mind. His conscious mind would have no recollection of writing the note, nor any input into its contents. I gave no guidance or suggestions regarding what to write – the content of the note was entirely up to his subconscious mind to share.
The results ended up being so beautiful and eloquent I immediately asked my boy if he would mind me (anonymously) sharing it and he kindly agreed.
Here it is:
“This butterfly is auxillary, it flutters up, and shows you something.
The benefits of being owned are numerous and inobvious. There is the level of relaxation it can bring, the peace of mind, the feelings of focus and devotion.
The incomprenensible depth of pleasure.
The sensual pleasure of exploring yourself, knowing your Mistress is exploring with you and that the depths you feel are exposed to her control, that your pleasure is her pleasure, that you can be consumed and utterly give yourself to her power.
That you can appreciate the beauty of her voice, her body and her mind, her will, her power overwhelming you with bliss, your consciousness overwhelmed and subject to her power, her beautiful power and strength, and grip.
The pleasure of relinquishment, of feeling her will at your core, of feeling her words as your own thoughts, of her words becoming your own mind.
The freedom of not having to think, to worry, to strategize, but just to obey what is given to you as a sensual gift”.
Such a beautifully written, eloquent expression of his experience of submission to me. Of being owned by me. I wanted to share it with you to give you a glimpse into the possibilities that exist in submission to me…the potential for pleasure and personal growth.
Every dynamic is different – every boy chooses to express their submission in different ways – but submission is a gift, and there is pleasure to be had in both gifting yourself through submission to a Domme you trust as well as reaping the benefits of submission and surrender.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this glimpse into the possibilities.
Thoughts? Opinion? Questions? Please share by leaving a comment (or two) below. Thank you.
by queenofdreams | Nov 5, 2018 | Fun/Memorable Hypnosis Sessions, Hypnosis, Uncategorized
I absolutely love what I do (hypnosis) and wanted to share some highlights of fun/memorable sessions. This story is part of a series where I recount some fun/memorable hypnosis sessions I have enjoyed over the years. All client identities are kept 100% anonymous.
I had a client come to me a few years ago – very nervous. An older gentleman, he had been interested in hypnosis for almost 30 years and had been actively trying to experience trance for over 20 years with no success. I recall he was fidgeting and reluctant to make eye contact. Simultaneously excited at the prospect of enjoying trance and resigned to the fact that based on multiple previous experience with other hypnotists it wouldn’t work, he was nervous, conflicted and far from what many would deem a “good” candidate to work with. After all, what hypnotist wants to take on a client who has seen multiple hypnotists for many years and yet never been able to trance?
Well – me, as it turns out. I really wanted to work with him. I am a firm believer in the potential of trance. Of all the possibilities for pleasure that exist in this special experience and I guess I’ve also never been one to turn down a challenge. When people try and tell me that I can’t do something or that something can’t be done, oftentimes my response has been to say “okay” and then proceed to attempt it. I figure that often there’s a lesson to be learned, even if I don’t achieve the outcome I am expecting.
So, with that in mind I agreed to enjoy a Skype session with this new client who had never tranced before. I knew going in that none of the “typical” inductions would work. No doubt many hypnotists before me had already tried them (obviously without success) so I had to come up with something different. And I did.
I sketched out some potential ideas before the session, but I decided not to go into too much detail with any single idea as I wanted to be flexible – to be able to have the ability to explore, see what worked and adapt to the signals the client was offering me. I wanted to be able to be flexible and responsive rather than relying on following a “tried and tested” common induction.
Not going to lie – it was a challenge. The client was very nervous and consistently reiterated he wasn’t sure that this would work. It became obvious to me that launching straight into trance would only put him on edge due to the expectations based on previous experiences. As a result, I decided to take things slow and focus on putting him at ease. I’ve learned over the years that relaxation isn’t a requirement for enjoying trance, but being confident in the person hypnotising you is. I gave him time to get to know me. To ask questions. Gradually he became less tense and worried. We talked about all sorts of things ranging from how he became involved in hypnosis right the way through to his hobbies.
Soon enough the conversation began to flow more smoothly and he became much calmer. He was less directly focused on trance and instead simply enjoying our conversation. Over time his breathing naturally slowed and deepened a little. He relaxed more without direct prompting from me. I noticed other subtle hints and signs that suggested he was receptive (if not consciously aware of this fact) to exploring trance.
I took things gradually. There was no rush and initially I didn’t make direct suggestions or commands. I allowed him to explore how his experience was evolving without dictating its speed or direction. Instead I was his guide. I was there to support and reassure him. Remind him that he didn’t need to “try”.
Over time his confidence grew and by the end of our session he’d not only experienced deep trance for me, but I had been able to give him post-hypnotic triggers that could be used (solely by me for safety reasons) even when he was not in trance. They were simple – for example the command “trance” would send him instantly back to a trance state – but effective and the beaming smile on his face once he realised he had finally achieved this experience he had been dreaming of for so, so long was one of pure joy. He was like a child at Christmas – so happy and excited. For my part, I was also really happy that he had been able to experience and enjoy trance.
Since then I have built a solid reputation as someone who is able to successfully hypnotise people who have previously struggled to enjoy trance. I accomplish this by using a more relaxed, conversational style and tailoring my approach specifically to the individual I am working with rather than relying on some of the more typical/common inductions such as progressive relaxation and countdowns. I really do love what I do and feel incredibly lucky to be able to offer my clients the opportunity to enjoy such a special experience.
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