by queenofdreams | Feb 1, 2017 | Uncategorized
I think to explain what I want to and how I want to, I need to start from the beginning, as it were.
I’ve had a passing awareness/vague interest in hypnosis for as long as I can remember – I thought it was interesting, but hadn’t paid much attention to how it actually worked. That all changed about seven years ago. I was working adult phone lines to help pay for my graduate degree (flexible hours, pay wasn’t bad and I’m a fairly open minded lady so it seemed like the obvious choice!).
So…I had this one guy on the phone – all was going well and then I noticed he started becoming more quiet and compliant…something was definitely “off”, but it took me a good while to figure out what it was. Needless to say I eventually had my light-bulb moment and figured out that this guy was in trance…and that I must have somehow done it. I remember being simultaneously confused and intrigued so decided to see how far I could take things. Turns out you can make guys orgasm and cum hands free. Who knew? (It was news to me at that point!).
Over the next few weeks I conducted a little experiment when working the phone lies, trying to replicate that initial response – I tried different words, tones of voice, suggestions…all sorts. I shamelessly took advantage of a lot of guys without them necessarily being aware (and introduced them to hands free orgasms in the process so I don’t think any would, in retrospect, complain). Initially I had mixed results, but over time I was able to refine the process and improve my success rate.
This brings me on to why I chose hypnosis – or rather why I chose to stick with it (7 years and counting!). First and foremost I love it – I love the scope and the adaptability…how it can be used to help people successfully overcome serious problems in their life, but at the same time can also be used recreationally either for platonic or erotic pleasure. Seriously – so many possibilities! How can that not be exciting?
I get a buzz each and every time I trance someone…whether it’s watching one of my boys slip into trance for me at a single command, or watching a new client gently succumb to the soft, subtle but devastatingly effective hypnotic power of my voice. It’s so much fun to learn, play and explore – especially when the only limit to what’s possible is your imagination. I get to have fun, to unleash my creativity and to watch my boys/clients enjoy exquisite and profound pleasure. Seriously – what more can a lady ask for?
I went pro about a year ago now (after around 2 years of loving pestering by Romeo of Descent Hypnosis Radio – as an aside, if you haven’t checked his radio station out yet, you really should!), and still pinch myself every time I get the opportunity to indulge in something I love so much and am so passionate about and get paid for it. To me that’s utterly crazy. It has had unintended benefits, though – the money I’ve earned so far has allowed me to indulge in one of my other passions – travel – and for that I am exceptionally grateful.
Every day that I get to continue doing what I love is a blessing. Hypnosis isn’t yet my full time job – I’ve made a conscious decision that because I am pursuing my passion I want to do it on my terms. I am selective about the clients I choose to work with – I want to make sure we both have broadly similar interests (e.g. if you’re into humiliation I am most definitely not the hypnotist for you! If on the other hand you want to enjoy erotic hypnosis to explore new dimensions of pleasure then please, by all means – get in touch!) and that I feel we would be a good “fit”. So far this has meant I have had to politely decline some clients (I make recommendations of other hypnoDommes who I feel may be more appropriate when I can), but the flip side is that the clients who I do engage with have a really great time (as do I, obviously!).
I don’t put on a persona – you get (for better or worse) my real personality. As I don’t see myself as a straight-up Domme (I can and do incorporate elements, but generally more lightly) you won’t find me demanding tributes before being allowed to talk to me (nothing inherently wrong with this – just not my style) or any “heavy-handed” domination. I pride myself on my ethics, but do enjoy pushing boundaries now and again (mine and yours).
That and it always brings a smile to my face when people share feedback/testimonials. Firstly, it’s lovely to hear and secondly if I am given permission to publish them, it helps others discover what I have to offer and allows me to connect with more people (and add to the holiday fund which is an extra bonus!). I would love to eventually be able to dedicate myself to my hypno business full-time and I hope that with your support that I will be able to accomplish this.
I’m not really sure if I chose hypnosis or if it chose me, but either way I am certainly enjoying the path it has set me on. For those of you who’ve already joined me on the journey – thank you! My life is almost certainly better for having you in it. For those of you who don’t know me yet and are just curious, you’re more than welcome to hop on board and see where it leads – I promise you it’s going to be an incredible (and pleasurable!) ride.
by queenofdreams | Jan 22, 2017 | Uncategorized
Hypnosis is a very subjective experience. Because trance is so personal, it’s as unique as each individual’s perception of reality. Yes, we can all agree on some shared aspects – the focus, the pleasure…but the experience itself – that is purely your own. In the same way, my perspective of what it is like to hypnotise someone is subjective and relates purely to my own perceptions and experiences.
I feel that I get an excellent perspective of this subjectivity as a hypnotist. I am always excited to work with people and to encourage them how to effectively utilise this amazing ability which they have to trance. To show them just what they are capable of achieving and experiencing.
My own background has largely revolved around live sessions – either in person or remotely via phone or Skype. I have lost count of the number of people I have hypnotised. Some of those people already had a lot of experience with hypnosis, whilst for others it was a totally new adventure. I’ve worked with skeptics and believers, novices and old hands….with each person I have always learned something new and loved the opportunity to unleash my creativity.
In live sessions, I never use scripts. Instead, I begin my chatting to the person – talking and asking questions to find out what they know about hypnosis and what their expectations are. If there are any gaps and/or misconceptions I can address these and it allows for a certain level of trust and rapport to be built. I get to know how and what you think and you get to know and understand my style, how I work and how I can help you. Discussions are also had on boundaries and what is to be achieved during the session, and I also take the time to answer questions which may arise.
Then comes the fun part…being able to fully unleash my creative passions. I’ve discovered over the years that just about anything can be utilised for an induction so I do like to experiment. Sometimes I will opt for conversational inductions…sometimes confusion inductions…other times a mix and/or myriad of different styles which crescendo together to deliver you to the mindless abandon of trance.
Some people appear to have a natural aptitude for trancing….it doesn’t matter if they’ve never been tranced before in their lives – if you get on their hypnotic wavelength (so to speak) they’ll drop almost instantaneously, even without realising what’ happening. In general, it’s those who are used to trancing who drop more quickly as they know what to expect, but for those with the natural aptitude, as I said, it can be almost instantaneous regardless.
For others, it can take them a little longer to discover their innate talents. To me this is equally enjoyable as I get to be party to the slow, gentle descent whilst finding original ways to help them to learn to recognise how it feels to go into trance…to identify the uniquely personal signals their body shares as they slip deeper. Either way, the end result is always the same….the almost inevitable descent into deep trance.
Personally I enjoy watching the subtle signals which let me know that the descent has begun and is ongoing. They vary from person to person, though there are some common themes: the breathing will become slower and more even, the speech more considered and the body generally becomes more relaxed as the mind becomes calmer and more focused. Beyond that, some people find themselves blinking more as their eyes get heavier…others feel heavy or light.
One interesting side effect I have noted among some men is they can at times achieve an unintentional erection. Many find this confusing as whilst they may not find the trance experience itself arousing, they’re experiencing a physical reaction which is traditionally a result of arousal. This can create some confusion, but in reality I suspect it is simply a result of the body relaxing, your breathing deepening and the resultant oxygenation of the blood leading to dilation in blood vessels results in a physical reaction (erection). Of course this then confuses the mind which can’t work out what the source is, so assumes it must be the fact that hypnosis is arousing. Some men accept this, others remain confused until it’s explained at which point the body usually adjusts, the issue resolves itself and the guy simply drops even deeper into trance.
Personally I love the fact that everyone I work with is different…I get a real kick out of helping people discover and enjoy their first ever trance experience or those who believed for whatever reason (either assumed or had been told by someone) that they would struggle to achieve hypnotic trance (the manic grin, slightly confused and glazed eyes and “oh my god I can’t believe that just happened – it’s amazing!” never gets old). There’s also the way that rapport and trust develops, and how over regular sessions you can learn and achieve more and more. All of these things are so special, and I am so grateful that I am able to share in such uniquely intimate experiences with people.
If you have any comments, questions or feedback please do not hesitate to get in contact. It’s always a pleasure to hear from people who are as passionate about hypnosis as I am.
