Ethics in Erotic Hypnosis

by | May 7, 2023 | Erotic Hypnosis

Erotic hypnosis is a form of sexual expression that involves the use of hypnosis to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. While this practice can be incredibly enjoyable and fulfilling for those involved, it is also (in my opinion) to consider the ethical implications of using hypnosis in a sexual context.

If you know me, you know that I take the issue of ethics very seriously and I feel it’s one reason why my clients feel able to place such secure trust in me – because they know I oprate ethically and ultimately with their best interests at heart.

With this in mind I wanted to write a blog post where the ethics of erotic hypnosis are explored and guidance is offered on how to ensure that hypnosis is used in a safe, consensual, and ethical manner.

What is Erotic Hypnosis?

Just to sum up – erotic hypnosis is a type of hypnosis that is used to enhance sexual pleasure and arousal. It involves inducing a trance-like state in which the individual being hypnotized is more open to suggestion and more responsive to sensory stimuli. Erotic hypnosis can be used in a variety of ways, such as to enhance sexual fantasies, increase sexual desire, and deepen emotional connections with a partner.

Ethics of Erotic Hypnosis

Ethics are an essential consideration when it comes to the use of hypnosis in a sexual context. There are several ethical issues that arise when using hypnosis for sexual purposes, including obtaining consent, managing power dynamics, minimizing the potential for harm, considering the potential long-term impact of hypnosis, and addressing broader societal implications.

Consent

Consent is the cornerstone of ethical sexual expression, and erotic hypnosis is no exception. All parties involved in a hypnotic experience must have a clear understanding of what they are consenting to, and this consent must be ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Any good hypnotist worth their salt will encourage open and honest communication, manage expectations and openly encourage discussions around consent before a session takes place.

In the case of erotic hypnosis, it is especially important to obtain explicit and informed consent due to the potential for the hypnotist to suggest behaviors or thoughts that the individual being hypnotized may not normally engage in or may not remember after the experience. Once again – consent must be obtained before the hypnotic experience begins and should include clear communication about what will happen during the experience, what suggestions may be made, and what the individual being hypnotized can expect to feel.

Power Dynamics

Another essential consideration when it comes to the ethics of erotic hypnosis is the power dynamics involved. The hypnotist holds a position of power and excisting and arousing as that can be, it’s still important that the hypnotist utilise that power in a way that is respectful, safe, and consensual. To manage power dynamics ethically, clear boundaries and guidelines should be established before beginning a hypnotic experience.These boundaries and guidelines should address issues such as what suggestions are acceptable, what behaviors are off-limits, and what actions will be taken if the individual being hypnotized expresses discomfort or distress. The individual being hypnotized should also be empowered to set their own boundaries and should be encouraged to communicate openly with the hypnotist throughout the experience.

Potential for Harm

Hypnosis is a powerful tool that can have a profound impact on the individual being hypnotized. To ensure that hypnosis is used safely and responsibly, the hypnotist must be trained and experienced in its use and must be able to recognize and respond to any signs of distress or discomfort on the part of the subject. I really cannot emphasize enough that it is very important to find a trained and experienced hypnotist if you want to delve beyond the most basic explorations (I say this as I am not averse to say couples experimenting in the bedroom, though even then ethical rules still apply and I strongly recommend doing as much research as possible to keep both parties safe)

Additionally, it is important to consider the potential long-term impact of hypnosis on the individual being hypnotized. Hypnosis can be a transformative experience that can have a lasting impact on a person’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whilst the impact should be entirely positive, the individual being hypnotized must be aware of these potential long-term effects and must be able to give informed consent to the experience.

Furthermore, it is essential to recognize that not all individuals are suitable candidates for hypnosis. People who are prone to dissociation or have a history of trauma may be particularly vulnerable to the potential harms of hypnosis. The hypnotist must be aware of these vulnerabilities and should take steps to ensure that the experience is safe and supportive for the individual being hypnotized.

Long-Term Impact

In addition to considering the potential for harm, I wanted to touch a little more on the potential long-term impact of hypnosis. As mentioned earlier, hypnosis can have a profound and lasting impact on a person’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It is important to consider how this impact might affect the individual being hypnotized, both in the short and long term.

For example, if the individual being hypnotized is experiencing relationship problems or sexual dysfunction, hypnosis might be used to address these issues. However, if the underlying causes of these issues are not properly addressed, hypnosis alone might not be effective in resolving them. Hypnosis should not be used as a substitute for therapy or other forms of professional support. It’s for this very reason that if a client expresses to me that they have been having issues with sexual dysfunction my initial response is to ensure that they have seen a medical professional to rule out any potential physical or psychological issues that should be medically addressed. I recognise that as a hypnotist I am not medically trained and ethically (and legally!) should not be treating such issues. Not to mention it would be morally remiss of me not to ensure that my clients physical and mental wellbeing is prioritised – and this includes seeking medical care when appropriate.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the use of hypnosis in a sexual context is a complex and multifaceted issue that requires careful consideration of ethical implications. Hypnosis can be a powerful tool for enhancing sexual pleasure and arousal, but it must be used in a safe, consensual, and ethical manner.

The ethical considerations of erotic hypnosis include obtaining ongoing and informed consent, managing power dynamics, minimizing the potential for harm, considering the potential long-term impact of hypnosis, and addressing broader societal implications. The hypnotist must be trained and experienced in the use of hypnosis and must be able to recognize and respond to any signs of distress or discomfort on the part of the individual being hypnotized.

Ultimately, the ethical use of hypnosis in a sexual context requires a commitment to respect, safety, and communication. By approaching erotic hypnosis with these principles in mind, individuals can experience the benefits of hypnosis while ensuring that the experience is consensual and respectful for all parties involved.

The Importance of Ethics In Hypnosis (***TRIGGER WARNING***)

by | Nov 7, 2019 | Hypnosis, Uncategorized

***trigger warning: this blog contains details relating to inappropriate triggers used on a minor***

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Those of you who know me know how I pride myself on my ethics, especially when it comes to hypnosis. It is very important to me that my clients know and feel safe with me. That they understand that their well-being is my priority.

Recently someone added a comment to a blog I wrote. I didn’t feel that the comment was appropriate to allow in response to the blog itself due to potentially triggering content, but I have included it below as an illustration of why ethics are so, so important in hypnosis (I should add that the story below is essentially “hearsay” as I have no way to independently verify what the original author has claimed occurred):

“At a stage show a couple of years ago at the Hypnothoughts Live conference in Las Vegas, a 15-year old girl was among the participants. She was implanted with a trigger that when her shoulder was touched, she would orgasm. After the show, people (men) kept coming up to her and touching her shoulder – it was VERY distressing to both the girl and her mother, who was present.

This should have been a NO-NO! It was highly improper and unethical, on the part of the hypnotist, especially with a minor and not to have removed the suggestion!”

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out why the above behaviour is incredibly inappropriate and that in itself makes the alleged event even more dismaying. It is so obviously, blatantly unethical and downright predatory – not only of the hypnotist but the men who chose subsequently to take advantage. The fact that the individual in question was also a minor makes what transpired even more heinous.

I simply cannot emphasize enough how important ethics is in hypnosis. Your hypnotist should make you feel safe and confident in their abilities as well as satisfied that they are placing a significant emphasis on your well-being. Trust your gut. If something feels “off”, even if you can’t put that feeling into words, you do not need to proceed. If you are in trance and the hypnotist suggests something that you are not comfortable with, you are not obliged to follow through. What will most likely happen is that you will snap out of trance at which point you can verbally object to the hypnotists suggestion. If the suggestion you were uncomfortable with wasn’t a deliberate ploy on the hypnotists part then they should be able to calmly talk through with you what happened and why, take this in to account and be mindful moving forward. They shouldn’t ask or encourage you to trance again until you feel comfortable and confident to do so. If the suggestion was deliberate (sadly bad, unethical hypnotists do exist as the above story illustrates) then you have the option to walk away altogether.

I think part of the problem is that people feel that once they are in trance they lose all control and feel as if they have to follow through with triggers and commands, even if they are not comfortable with them. This is simply not true. You always have a choice. It doesn’t matter how deeply you are tranced. If this is an area of concern for you then I would recommend listening to a free mp3s I have – “Art of Control”. If it makes it easier for you, listen through the first time without trancing to make sure you’re comfortable with the content.  Doing this won’t prevent you from being able to achieve and enjoy trancing to this recording when you are ready to.

If you are a hypnotist reading this – please be mindful of ethics and ethical implications of what you’re doing and/or want to do. Your subject is placing their trust in you. Please don’t abuse it. Your subjects physical and mental well-being should be your top priority.

 

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